Honestly, I am not a fan of the 9 keys to your future and 13 things you should avoid when seeking success type articles that seem to be everywhere these days. Don’t get me wrong, it is not because they do not have good advice—many of them do. I have read several and even learned a few things along the way. In general I love lists, just not when those list are combined with tools for success. My concern is the misconception that comes when people assume they can take 4 steps a