
The NEW 80/20 Rule
Reason. Season. Lifetime. We all know that concept. It’s the idea that some people are meant to be in our lives short term and others are meant to teach us a lesson; Few are actually going to hang on for dear life for the rest of our lives. That is how it should be. Adele says: Sometimes it lasts in love, but sometimes it hurts instead.” The reality is that some relationships are “growing points” and others are “grounding.” To be clear: Growing Points are relationships that s

Love vs. Favor
Love is free, but Favor has responsibilities… Have you ever grown into a feeling of being used by the same person who you used to do things for effortlessly? Have you ever extended far beyond yourself for someone who demonstrated little or no gratitude? Have you ever given so much that you had nothing left to give? That’s because we mistake Favor for Love and abuse ourselves with the wrong offerings. Love does not cost us a thing. Not to give and not to receive. If anyone tel